Overcoming Life's Disappointments, by Harold S. Kushner
From the author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People, a book that shows us how to be our best selves even when things don't turn out as we had hoped—that is, how we can overcome life's disappointments.
Overcoming Life's Disappointmentsby Harold S. Kushner
Alfred A. Knopf, Aug. 2006
Book Description
Kushner turns to the experience of Moses to find the requisite lessons of strength
and faith. Moses towers over all others in the Old Testament: he is the man on
the mountaintop to whom God speaks with unparalleled intimacy, and he leads his
people out of bondage. But he is also deeply human, someone whose soaring triumphs
are offset by frustration and longing: his people ignore his teachings, he is
denied entrance to the Promised Land, his family suffers. But he overcomes.
Through the example of Moses' remarkable resilience, we learn how to weather
the disillusionment of dreams unfulfilled, the pain of a lost job or promotion,
a child's failures, divorce or abandonment, and illness. We learn how to meet
all disappointments with faith in ourselves and the future, and how to respond
to heartbreak with understanding rather than bitterness and despair.
This is a book of spiritual wisdom—as practical as it is inspiring.
About the Author
Harold S. Kushner is Rabbi Laureate of Temple Israel in Natick, Massachusetts,
where he resides. He has been honored by the Christophers, a Roman Catholic organization,
as one of the fifty people who have made the world a better place in the last
half century, and by Religion in American Life as the clergyman of the year in
1999. He is the author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People and eight other
books.
Review from Publishers Weekly
When life does not unfold as planned, Rabbi Kushner (When Bad Things Happen to
Good People) strongly but sympathetically urges his readers to take inventory,
learn from their experiences and move on with an open heart. Who better to learn
from, he contends, than Moses, the greatest hero of the Jewish people? Moses
not only led the Jews from slavery in Egypt and through the desert for 40 years
to receive the Torah, but had to continually bear the ingratitude and complaints
of his people, and relegate his personal life to a distant second place. Threading
vignettes of Moses' resiliency into his discussion, Kushner advises that when
personal difficulties arise-whether in the form of illness, marital problems
or job frustrations-readers should not allow their faith and dreams to die. Rather,
they should draw upon hope and forgiveness to become stronger, channeling their
love and fear toward a dream that incorporates the best of who they are. Kushner
does not shy away from difficult issues and awkward dilemmas, and his years of
rabbinical experience in dealing with congregants' troubles make him well suited
to offer advice. This readable and sensitive discussion of "Life is tough;
let's be strong enough not to be broken by it" should appeal to anyone who
has ever been disappointed.
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Review from Library Journal
Few writers in popular spirituality have been more prolific, more beloved, or
more successful in reaching across the lines that divide one faith from another
than Rabbi Kushner (When Bad Things Happen to Good People). Here, he skillfully
negotiates two puzzles: Why did Moses, as depicted in Hebrew Scripture, struggle
so hard and not see the Promised Land, and how can we all cope with disappointment?
Kushner finds deep meaning and satisfaction in Moses's heroism and duty and sees
in him an example for us all. Distinctive in its approach and gracefully written,
Overcoming is perhaps Kushner's best book in years. Highly recommended.
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